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Crushing on a straight girl, advice?

So this girl..Is on my soccer team with me. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I constantly find myself staring at her and fantasizing. She doesn't have her orientation listed on facebook but she "looks" straight and is religious like, goes to religious camps and went to Nicaragua for this religious youth thing. Anyways. I'm assuming she's straight because of the religious aspect (not generalizing just saying) and because she looks straight plus, i'd rather not get my hopes up. But lately I catch her looking at me and being generally more friendly towards me. I've tried talking to her more often now but shes just so impossible to read and I don't know whether to try and pursue this or just leave it alone. This crush is driving me nuts, thanks in advance :)

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1. just go with the flow(:
good luckk!

2. How about going to the doctor and have him/her fix ur condition so you can be normal?

Also people look at people who look at them, this fat asian chick in my class always looks at me and I look at her b/c shes looking at me. But I find her fatness repulsive so no thank you, its just people look at people who look at them.

Also try seeing a doctor, or look into germ line therapy

3. Just start being really "friendly" and see how she reacts, then you'll know.

4. I would try to be her friend first. Then see where it leads sometimes you might like her on the outside but once you get to know her you might not have a crush on her nomore because of the personality (good and bad.) And once you go that route I would ask her about gay issues once you feel your content in the friendship to see what she say and you can go on from there.

5. WRITE HER A LETTER

6. ok first off, there is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with liking members of the same sex (ahem, brian). i am a 13 year old bisexual girl, and i feel so much better now that i am being truthful to myself for once. anyways, i totally get what you are saying. i have a crush on my best girl friend and she is straight AND she has a boyfriend. she is constantly hugging me though, all through lunch and before and after school, and i am confused just like you. i would agree with the comment on just acting 'friendly' back to her, see if she responds. if she does, then ask her if she has a bf/gf. later, when you get to know each other better, ask her if she is or has ever thought of going bi or lesbian. but don't pounce on her at once give it time, be patient. best of luck :)